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Sex Advice From My Ex & How It Played Out In Bed (With Other Dudes)
“Can I ask you a personal question?”
I texted from bed.
“Shoot.” he responded
“What do men love in bed?”
Dave* was my first grown-up love. It was one of that deep, I-feel-your-soul-kind of love; one where you don’t need words to communicate, you just get each other. Our sex life had been the absolute best of my 32 years.
But life happened and we broke up. Recently single, I’d been having some pretty hot hookups. Yet I couldn’t help but feel less confident than I’d been in my 20’s.
Here I lay, drunk at 2am on a Wednesday night asking my ex for sex advice. Realizing this, I felt a ripple of embarrassment.
“Actually, don’t respond if I just crossed a line.”
My phone lit up with Dave’s answers.
Here’s how his sex tips played out in bed… with other men.
5 Of The Most Underrated Ways to Have Super Hot Hookups
1. Penis & Vagina Compliments: 10/10
Dave’s first piece of advice was to show enthusiasm at the sight of my partner’s parts, even if slightly disappointed. He pointed out that there’s nothing…